Stop Waiting for Validation.

Start Designing the Unapologetically Amazing Life You Deserve

You are amazing, but you’ve spent too long strategizing everyone else’s happiness and ignoring your own inner voice.

You work hard, you care deeply, and yet, you secretly feel like you’re settling—like your big ambitions are just a little too bold for you. You’re over-giving, over-thinking, and feeling guilty every time you put yourself first.

It’s time for a non-negotiable upgrade. I don't coach theory; I coach results. I’ve deliberately designed my life—from the gym floor to frequent trips to the Caribbean—and I’m here to show you how to design yours, too.

What Is NOT Having Self-Love REALLY Costing You...

At Work and With Ambiton?

The Lost Ambiton

Knowing deep down you could go after that better job, start that side-hustle, or pursue that passion—but not having the balls to make the first move.

The Quiet Life

Staying quiet, shrinking your goals, and not speaking up for yourself because you don’t feel fully worthy of the recognition or the reward.

The Stuck Feeling

Consuming endless self-help content, but lacking the inner conviction to actually apply the strategies and feeling frozen when it's time to take a leap.

What Is NOT Having Self-Love REALLY Costing You...

In Relationships and With Yourself?

The Inner Critic Tax

Dealing with a self-talk voice that is harsher than any critic, draining your energy and stopping you from being bold.

The Time Thieves

Failing to set clear boundaries, saying 'yes' out of guilt, and watching your personal time and energy get constantly sacrificed for others' demands.

The Settling Trap

Accepting partners, friends, or situations that don't meet your standards because you believe you don't deserve anything better.

You are paying a high price for not being unapologetically you.

It's time to stop

This is not a Fluffy Self-Help Course.

This is Mindset Strategy.

The Ultimate Self-Love Kit is the result of my CBT-informed coaching methodology, delivered with all my straight-talking, no-fluff sass. We are cutting through the noise and doing the deep work to ensure you have the constructive thinking and self-worth to make your big dreams a reality. We are turning potential into proven power.

Imagine Your Life When You...

... walk into any room—a work meeting, a social event, or a tough conversation—with unshakeable, effortless confidence, knowing your value without needing validation.

... set boundaries like a boss, demanding respect and protecting your energy without one ounce of guilt.

... finally have the courage to go after what you want—that job, that relationship, that adventure—because you believe you deserve it.

... honor your health and goals, showing up physically and mentally strong, because self-love is your new non-negotiable strategy.

... make decisions quickly and fiercely, knowing that you are fully capable of designing your own amazing destiny.

What's Included...

6 Core Video Modules

Step-by-step guidance straight from my signature coaching process to dismantle limiting beliefs and build an unshakeable mindset.

9 High Impact Assignments

This is where you 'do the work' that moves you from theory to life-changing action. These are your homework assignments for success.

Private Community Group

Connect with other women on the same journey. A supportive space to share wins and strategies (no toxicity allowed).

Lifetime Access

Revisit the material whenever you need a reset, an upgrade, or a powerful injection of confidence.

Immediate Digital Access

Start designing your life and mastering your mindset the minute you sign up.

Your Mindset Mentor

Hi Beautiful, I'm Nicola Findlay, I'm based in Surrey, England and I will be your companion and confidant on this chapter of your self-love journey.

I work as an Executive Coach for women in business and I honestly believe it is my mission in life to support women in becoming the best, boldest versions of themselves. Nothing gives me greater pleasure than seeing a woman grow and expand into the future version of herself that used to feel like a distant dream.

After spending the last decade working with women in business it was important to me that I found a way to serve more incredible women. That's why I designed The Ultimate Self-Love Kit to be an accessible, kickass transformation available to women worldwide. Now you can level up and start your self-love journey; affordably, from the comfort of your own home, on your own time, with zero excuses.

Ready to Ditch the Self-Doubt and Design Your Amazing Life?

You have the ambition, the energy, and the will. The only thing missing is the blueprint for self-love that gives you the balls and belief to achieve your highest potential.

The investment for your future starts now for only

$97

Click here to enroll in The Ultimate Self-Love Kit and secure your non-negotiable upgrade.

YES, I'M READY FOR MY UNAPOLOGETIC UPGRADE!